Etiquette for Meeting Elizabeth II

Naturally, protocol for meeting Elizabeth II and Prince Philip is formal; but is not as elaborate nor complicated as the public often supposes. 

 Guidelines for Meeting, Greeting or Feeding the Queen of England

Fingers Only 

On introduction to the Queen and Philip, their hands not are actually shaken but the fingers simply touched in token of greeting or the Royal couple would have sprained wrists from greeting so many. Gentlemen are expected to give a normal bow as they take the Royal hand. Ladies give what is knowm at Court as “a short curtsy” — a little dip made by placing the left foot just behind the right and inclining the head. The old style, floor-touching curtsy was abolished, because it takes too long for the lady to go down and rise again. The deep dip slowed the receiving line. 

Glove Etiquette 

The Queen wears gloves, usually white ones, on outdoor: occasions and with evening dress. She prefers other women do the same because so much hand-shaking is involved, but would never refuse to meet a woman whose hands were bare. Most men like to wear gloves for the same reason. Elizabeth always takes a wardrobe of new clothes with her to compliment her hosts. Guests do not have to follow suit by buying a new outfit, but they should be dressed fittingly. Very low-cut dresses always are considered inappropriate. 

Simple Tastes

Would-be hosts are told that the Queen’s tastes are simple. Neither she, nor the Prince, likes soups, oysters, other shellfish or caviar. The Queen is fond of china tea while Prince Philip drinks coffee whenever he can. Both are fond of fresh fruits and enjoy chicken dishes. They like to sample the local specialities. Prince Philip, who takes great interest in cooking and does a little himself at home, often asks for the recipe of an unfamiliar dish he has enioyed. The Royal couple do not smoke. They drink wine and champagne at formal meals and the Prince takes an occasional glass of light beer with his lunch. — The Desert Sun, 1969

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