Showing posts with label Postiche Etiquette. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Postiche Etiquette. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 20, 2020

Diplomatic Blunder Led to Faux Pas

It was bad enough that he had a faux nose to replace the one he lost due to illness, but how on earth could someone with a faux nose use snuff? And would the person even want to???— “Prince Alexander, with his wonted grace of manner, soothed the wounded spirit of the diplomatist, and on taking leave of him was so anxious to be polite that, forgetting the peculiar disabilities under which Gadban Effeudi labored, he presented him with a valuable silver snuff-box.” — Above, antique silver snuff box.



In a letter from Sophia, we find the following story: Gadban Effendi, at some early period of his life, was in delicate health, and his malady settling in his note brought about the total loss of that feature. This misfortune was mitigated by the adoption of a paper substitute, which answers uncommonly well and never turns blue on frosty mornings. But of course it is not a thing to take notice of or talk about. Yet, when Gadban Effendi was going to Stamboul last January with the Prince's message to the Sultan, a passport was given him by the Bulgarian Foreign office, which contained his signalement, of which one of the items was, “Nez Postiche.”


This brutal precision irritated Gadban Effendi very much. He demanded an audience of the Prince, and insisted that the passport clerk should be dismissed. Prince Alexander, with his wonted grace of manner, soothed the wounded spirit of the diplomatist, and on taking leave of him was so anxious to be polite that, forgetting the peculiar disabilities under which Gadban Effeudi labored, he presented him with a valuable silver snuff-box. — Daly Alta, 1886



Etiquette Enthusiast, Maura J. Graber, is the Site Editor for the Etiquipedia© Etiquette Encyclopedia


Sunday, October 18, 2020

Postiche Etiquette

A beautiful, Victorian, Jasperware “hair tidy“ or “hair receiver” for saving one’s “combings.” These were common items on the dressing tables of wealthy women, throughout the Victorian and Edwardian eras. They remained popular items all the way up to the 1950’s. Saved hairs from brushes and combs were collected to make personal hairpieces — also known by their French terms, “toupees” or “postiches.”  
It is never polite to assume someone is wearing a hairpiece, or ask about someone’s hairpiece, unless the person in question raises the subject in conversation. Even then, use caution with your comments. Most often, people will only bring the subject up in fishing expeditions for compliments.



Wear a Fresh Spring Postiche and Mind Your Postiche Manners


The best postiche is made from one's own combings. It is not hard to find a hairdresser, even in small towns, who makes false hair into various forms; if not, the combings can be sent to a city establishment. The cost of making is less than a bought postiche, and the risk lessoned.


See that the piece is tightly woven. If not, if too loose, the hair pulls up and roughens. When this occurs there is no cure but reweaving.


Never let a postiche get tangled. Brush it daily, or as often as worn, with a brush with rubber back and stiff bristles. This tears the hair less than combing. Occasionally, put a few drops of brilliantine on the brush. It will take away the dead look that so quickly comes to false hair.


A postiche should not be allowed to lie uncovered, collecting dust. Keep it in a drawer for cleanliness.


A postiche should be frequently washed, especially when the hair has been shampooed, for dust is transferred from it to the clean scalp. Use a suds of white soap, which is rinsed well later, or gasoline. Dry quickly, shake well, and brush until fluffy.


The adjusting of a postiche is important. Brush the hair forward and pin the edge with small steel pins. Then brush back in sections, pin into place, and draw one's own hair loosely over it or not, as you wish. Some women prefer brushing the postiche and front hair back as if all were grown on the head.


When a postiche is bought instead of made from combings, pay more and get real hair. Cheaper grades soon fade, and never fail to show, even with the most careful hairdressing. — New York Times, 1912

While it’s no longer recommended to use gasoline to wash one’s hairpiece, proper grooming etiquette still requires that people keep their hairpieces clean. A good shampoo should do the trick! — “A postiche should be frequently washed, especially when the hair has been shampooed, for dust is transferred from it to the clean scalp. Use a suds of white soap, which is rinsed well later, or gasoline. Dry quickly, shake well, and brush until fluffy.” 



Etiquette Enthusiast, Maura J. Graber, is the Site Editor for the Etiquipedia© Etiquette Encyclopedia