By the 1930’s, after the enormous loss of lives in WWI and the worldwide Influenza Epidemic of 1918 and 1919, many rules of mourning had fallen by the wayside. One of these was black trimmed mourning stationary, which was seen less and less frequently. As people persevered and life went on, especially in large, growing cities, the previously watched social regulations for those in mourning, became enforced less often. – Above, a 1913 letter signifying a death is mailed, using black trimmed mourning stationary.
Question: What is the etiquette in regard to mourning apparel?
Answer: Regulations for mourning are no longer as strict as those prevailing several generations ago since many today do not believe in going into mourning at all. Some prefer it as a protection against thoughtless remarks.
People do not put on black for aunts, uncles or cousins unless there is a deep tie of affection. Today many omit the long mourning veils and crepe.
Lustreless silks and plain, quiet garments constitute mourning. Children, if wearing mourning at all, are usually dressed all in white. A man’s mourning apparel usually consists of a black band on the hat or left sleeve. – Imperial Valley Press, 13 May, 1931
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