Showing posts with label Kaiser Wilhelm II. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Kaiser Wilhelm II. Show all posts

Monday, November 10, 2025

An Emperor Abandoned Etiquette

It was not a fortnight ago that Herbert Bismarck was entertaining a party of friends in his bachelor quarters when, all of a sudden, the Emperor walked in. A seat was put for his Majesty at the table, and for an hour or so the Emperor chatted gayly with the guests; then, apologizing graciously for his intrusion, the Kaiser bade the company good evening and went his way.– Portrait of Herbert von Bismarck, done 1892 by C.W.Allers.

THE GERMAN EMPEROR
Some of the Whims and Hobbies 
of His Nibs

In one particular at least the young emperor of Germany seeks to emulate the example of the famous Caliph of Bagdad. He makes a practice of prowling around to find out by means of his own eyes and ears the will and the wants of his people. The military people do not fancy this this sort of thing, for they are (in Germany of all countries) severe stickiers at etiquette, and they regard it as shockingly degrading. that their sovereign should snoop around barracks in the darkness of night, in the disguise sometimes of a patrolman and sometimes of an officer.

Another practice of William’s is to call informally upon his acquaintances in Berlin; at any hour of the day or evening he is likely to make his appearance in the house of a friend, and, of course, being the Kaiser, he has to be made welcome. It was not a fortnight ago that Herbert Bismarck was entertaining a party of friends in his bachelor quarters when, all of a sudden, the Emperor walked in. A seat was put for his Majesty at the table, and for an hour or so the Emperor chatted gayly with the guests; then, apologizing graciously for his intrusion, the Kaiser bade the company good evening and went his way.– Fresno Weekly Expositor. 1890

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Tuesday, April 29, 2025

Twain’s Etiquette Advice to Kaiser

Another tale and take of Mark Twain’s on etiquette.  
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Public domain image of  Mark Twain

 

Why Mark Twain Didn’t Talk at the Kaiser’s Table


A couple of days ago a gentleman called upon me with a message (from the German Emperor). The wording of the message to me was, “Convey to Mr. Clemens my kindest regards. Ask him if he remembers that dinner and ask him why he didn't do any talking.”

Why how could I talk while he was talking? “He held the age.” as the poker-clergy say, and two can’t talk at the same time with good effect. It reminds me of the man who was reproached by a friend, who said: “I think it a shame that you have not spoken to your wife for fifteen years. How do you explain it? How do you justify it?”

That poor man said: “I didn't want to interrupt her.”

If the Emperor had been at my table, he would not have suffered from my silence, he would only have suffered from the sorrows of his own solitude. If I were not too old to travel I would go to Berlin and introduce the etiquette of my own table, which tallies with the etiquette observable at other royal tables. 

I would say: “Invite me again. Your Majesty, and give me a chance”; then I would courteously waive rank and do all the talking myself. I thank His Majesty for his kind message, and am proud to have it and glad to express my sincere reciprocation of its sentiments.- From Mark Twain's Autobiography, in the North American Review for March 15, 1907


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Saturday, March 2, 2024

Etiquette Broken by Ambassador


“The etiquette of diplomacy has it that an Ambassador, even one from a republic, who hangs about a throne thereby acquires a sort of obligation to observe the etiquette of the throne. When Bismark wrote his memoirs, even that man of blood and iron wrote only of Kingly persons who were dead; etiquette forbade him even discussing the relations he had with living royalties. It is this rule that Gerard is breaking all to pieces.” Kaiser Wilhelm II was the last German Emperor and King of Prussia, from 1888 until his abdication in 1918. This marked the end of the German Empire and the 300-year reign of the House of Hohenzollern in Prussia, along with the end of the 500-year reign in Brandenburg.– Public domain image of Ambassador James W. Gerard, Ambassador to Germany from 1913 to 1917


Gerard’s Story Will Stir London


(Special Correspondence) LONDON, July 28.- Official London is "shocked." It is not the first time London has been shocked by American ways of doing things, and probably will not be the last. The thing which has caused this particular shock is the announcement of the publication of the memoirs of Ambassador Gerard, who but a few weeks ago was President Wilson's personal representative at the court of Berlin. This story will run in the Los Angeles "Examiner" beginning August 5.

It appears that there is a divinity which doth hedge a King– or a Kaiser – for which Ambassador Gerard, like other Americans, care not one straw. The etiquette of diplomacy has it that an Ambassador, even one from a republic, who hangs about a throne thereby acquires a sort of obligation to observe the etiquette of the throne. When Bismark wrote his memoirs, even that man of blood and iron wrote only of Kingly persons who were dead; etiquette forbade him even discussing the relations he had with living royalties. It is this rule that Gerard is breaking all to pieces. 

Just back from Berlin, only a few days out of the diplomatic service, he is proceeding to tell his fellow citizens in good plain American language just what he said to the Kaiser and just what the Kaiser said to him, and how the German secret-service tried to search his. papers while the German Foreign Office was trying to divert his attention by telling him how much they loved America; and how he introduced the good American phrase, "Until hell freezes over," into the German language, and a lot of similar things.

The point is that Mr. Gerard ought to wait until the Kaiser is dead. Eng- land has no love for the Kaiser, and would just as lieve that the Kaiser play he is dead, but England has a KING and a court, and etiquette is etiquette. In the meantime, the American public will undoubtedly be looking for every installment of Gerard's story, and reading it with eager interest, as it appears as a serial in the leading daily papers of all parts of the United States. – Ventura Free Press, 1917


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Sunday, August 15, 2021

An Emperor’s One-Armed Eating

Over the years, numerous “amputee” forks and one-armed eating tools have been invented. Dining in a dignified manner, using only one hand, was made easier by combining a fork and knife in one utensil. This one shown is from the book, “What Have We Here?” and is a post-World War I era fork and knife combination for cutting food and then bringing it to the mouth. The stainless steel blade with tines has a Bakelite handle.– The news article does not describe the Kaiser’s dining “implement” so we can only guess what type of these it might have been.


Why the Dinner was Late
An Exhaustive Search Was Necessary to Discover Important Utensils
An 1860’s American Civil War era Army officer’s folding spoon and combination knife and fork, fully unfolded.
An 1860’s American Civil War era, Army officer’s folding spoon and combination knife and fork. 
A modified version of a Nelson Fork, made some 40 to 50 years later, designed for the general public’s one-handed eating of pickles, pies and cakes.

A “Nelson Fork” - Named for Admiral Nelson who lost his arm fighting Napoleon’s forces at Tenerife


An incident which occurred two or three years ago. on the occasion of the young German Emperor's visit to Greece, illustrates anew the fact, which no one ever doubted, that the etiquette of a Court may bring as much discomfort to the King as to the people who surround him. The Kaiser holds the honorary rank of Admiral in the British navy. The commander of the British squadron in Greek waters tendered his Majesty a dinner on board his ship. Of course, the banquet was to be a most elaborate and magnificent affair. 

The hour arrived, and the Royal guest and his suite and officers, all in brilliant uniform, were assembled. Then it was discovered that an important implement was missing. Where was the Emperor’s knife and fork? For the Kaiser, having but one arm that he can use —his left arm is withered—can wield the scepter, the sword or the pen, but cannot use a knife and fork as other people use them. In their place, he employs an ingenious contrivance which combines in one implement both knife and fork, and does very well with it. Just at that moment it was discovered that the Imperial knife and fork had not been placed by the Imperial plate. It was sought for, but it could not be found. 

The Emperor’s attendants were inquired of; no one knew where it was. Then the knife and fork might have been left ashore, perhaps. A picked crew were put into one of the ship’s boats, and brawny backs bent over the oars, for the errand was one that called for dispatch. The Emperor’s quarters in the city were searched, but no knife and fork could be found. All this time, the dinner was spoiling. The search had been made with all possible energy, but it was now two hours since the table had lacked only the Kaiser's knife and fork. But the dinner could not be eaten until the Kaiser was ready to eat, and his eating implements must he found. Perhaps before this time the happy thought had occurred to more than one person, “The Emperor may know where it is.” But up to this time no one had ventured to ask him. Would he, under the melancholy circumstances, take it amiss if he were questioned? 

Hunger rendered the host bold: with decorus delicacy the Emperor was approached, and the momentous question was put. Could he tell where his knife and fork might be found? “Why, yes, here it is,” replied William II, and reaching inside his uniform he produced the much sought implement from an inner pocket. The host forthwith led the way to the table, not only greatly relieved in mind, but deeply impressed with the fact that the affairs of Germany were in safe hands. —Youth’s Companion, 1892



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Friday, January 27, 2017

Alcohol, Etiquette and the Kaiser

According to strict etiquette, alcoholic drinks would be banished from all dinners at which his Majesty was present in the ordinary way.

Contrary to popular belief, the amount of beer drunk per head of population in Germany every year is considerably less than the amount drunk in England. Very little alcohol is drunk by the German Royal family though the Kaiser is the only absolute teetotaler. 

When he is invited to dinner, he drinks a special temperance drink that is supplied to his host in advance, and is served to the Emperor in champagne bottles. The reason for this is that according to strict etiquette, alcoholic drinks would be banished from all dinners at which his Majesty was present in the ordinary way. But the Kaiser waives etiquette and drinks mock champagne while the guests are drinking real variety. - Healdsburg Enterprise, 1913


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Tuesday, October 18, 2016

Etiquette Perplexed the Royals

Thousands will not breathe freely until Germany's Emperor has left.

The Kaiser's Travels
 English Society Excited Over the Coming Event
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Queen Victoria Confers With the Prince of Wales on Matters of Etiquette


London, July 1891 —The Prince of Wales today had a long interview with the Queen,who summoned him for the purpose of discussing and settling a number of perplexing questions of Court etiquette and precedence on account of the approaching visit of the Emperor and Empress of Germany. 

Court and military society, and nearly all other circles, are more or less stirred up by the Emperor's coming, and thousands will not breathe freely until Germany's Emperor has left. German detectives, British detectives and police of all kinds are already attending to business, for the fact that there are hot-headed Emperor hating Germans and Frenchmen in Great Britain, is not lost sight of by the authorities. — Los Angeles Herald, 1891

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Wednesday, September 7, 2016

German Imperial Court Etiquette

French champagne was avoided... The Kaiser was very precise about the table settings and frequently planned the menus himself. 

German Imperial Court etiquette required that a man invited to a luncheon at the Emperor's Imperial Palace must wear a special white tie and frock coat.

When the Emperor and Empress entered, all rose to their feet in silence, and remained standing until their Imperial host permitted them to resume their seats by a wave of the hand.

The Kaiser was very precise about the table settings and frequently planned the menus himself. The Imperial table at Potsdam was probably the only one in Europe that was never graced by a French menu card. Emperor Wilhelm favored the more comprehensible, if less appetizing, native phraseology.

The style of the table decorations was always the same, roses being the only flowers the Empress would tolerate. Wine was the sole beverage. French champagne was avoided and guests were required to converse in an undertone.



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Tuesday, April 5, 2016

Imperial Telephone Etiquette

The Emperor refuses to name himself at the opening of his conversation, as other people do. He "introduces" his telephoned orders merely with the words, "I command that," and so forth.

Emperor William II has his own Imperial way of using the telephone. Despite mistakes caused by the Emperor's refusal to name himself at the opening of his conversation, as other people do, he invariably introduces his telephoned orders merely with the words, "I command that," and so forth.

As soon as a chief of department hears these words, he motions that his subordinates must at once leave the room. The significance of this arrangement is supposed to be that the chief is having something of an audience with his Majesty, and that it would be presumptuous for a person not summoned, to hear the Imperial voice to occupy the room into which its tones are convoyed.

At the end of the conversation the Emperor walks away without saying "good by," and the chief with whom he has conversed must listen for five or six minutes afterward, to make sure that the Imperial orders have been completed. Then he calls back his assistants, and the usual etiquette is resumed. —New York Sun, 1893


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Friday, March 18, 2016

Etiquette and Lèse Majesté

In feudal Europe, some crimes were classified as “lèse-majesté” even if they were not intentionally directed against the crown. An example is counterfeiting, so classified because coins bore the monarch's effigy and/or coat of arms. With the disappearance of absolute monarchy in Europe, lèse-majesté came to be viewed as less of a crime. However, certain malicious acts that would have once been classified as the crime of lèse-majesté could still be prosecuted as treason. The crime of lèse-majesté is still in affect in some European countries today, but with less severe punishments than in the rest of the world.

All the principal comic papers in Germany were confiscated this week on account of their publication of cartoons ridiculing the Emperor and the police. Some of these papers will be prosecuted on the charge of lèse-majesté. 

Herr Lieber, the Centrist leader, has started for the United States. While the quarrel between Emperor William and the Regent of Lippe-Detmold is only a storm in a teacup, over a miserable question of court etiquette, it has occupied the press to the exclusion of almost everything else. A high official of the Ministry of the Interior has briefly outlined the facts in the case to the correspondent of the Associated Press. They are as follows:

The Regent was already offended on account of various alleged slights, for which he blamed the Emperor, when the general commanding the troops in the principality ordered his soldiers henceforth not to make the salute prescribed in the case of ruling sovereigns or to show the customary marks of respect to the Regent's family. The Regent, thereupon deeming his rights under the military convention of 1878 to have been slighted, appealed to the Emperor in a personal letter for redress. 

This letter contained several passages which were construed by his Majesty to be purposely offensive, whereupon he sent the Regent a telegram which traversed a dozen hands and thence reached the newspapers substantially verbatim. Then followed the deeply offended Regent's appeal to the sovereigns of Germany and to the Bundesrath. The matter is expected to remain in status quo for some time. 

The correspondent of the Associated Press learns from another source that Emperor William's anger was particularly aroused by certain references in the Regent's letter to the Empress and her family, a parallel being drawn on the question of rank in both cases, and his Majesty's ire was increased by the fact that the Legislature of Lippe-Detmold, at the Regent's behest and without awaiting the direction of the Bundesrath, passed a law in March prejudicing the chances of the succession of Prince Adolph of Schaumburg -Llppe, Emperor William's brother-in-law. — The San Francisco Call, 1898


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