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"Mrs. Smith's residence" is the correct term for a servant to use but not for any member of the family, including a child. Members of the family say, "Hello." |
I would assume that the correct form for a civilian child to use would be, "Mr. Smith's residence, John speaking." But in this age of direct distance dialing, some positive form of identification is required. I feel that "Smith's residence" is infinitely better than "hello." May I have your opinion on this matter?. If "Smith's residence" is not the correct form, what is? —F.L.P., Columbus, Ga.
THE TERM, "Smith's residence," is never correct. "Mrs. Smith's residence" is the correct term for a servant to use but not for any member of the family, including a child. Members of the family say, "Hello."
It is true that in the service it is customary to answer the phone, "Colonel Brown's quarters, Bobby speaking," if it is a child answering, or, "Mrs. Brown speaking" if it is an adult, or (more in past days than today), "Colonel Brown's quarters, the maid speaking." It is true that service families tend to continue this practice in civilian life and for them I see no objection to it.
Some few people follow the custom of saying merely, "Yes?" (which I find disconcerting) or, "Mrs. Smith" which is in my opinion too revealing). The safe "Hello" is the best course for everyone. We should not reveal our names or telephone numbers to strangers calling who do not identify themselves first.– By Amy Vanderbilt, United Feature Syndicate, 1967
It is true that in the service it is customary to answer the phone, "Colonel Brown's quarters, Bobby speaking," if it is a child answering, or, "Mrs. Brown speaking" if it is an adult, or (more in past days than today), "Colonel Brown's quarters, the maid speaking." It is true that service families tend to continue this practice in civilian life and for them I see no objection to it.
Some few people follow the custom of saying merely, "Yes?" (which I find disconcerting) or, "Mrs. Smith" which is in my opinion too revealing). The safe "Hello" is the best course for everyone. We should not reveal our names or telephone numbers to strangers calling who do not identify themselves first.– By Amy Vanderbilt, United Feature Syndicate, 1967
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