Timeless Etiquette Advice from 1914

The bearing should be erect, dignified but retiring, free from all boisterous actions. Never do anything to attract attention.

By Way of Reminder

1. The really attractive girl has become so by a process of thoughtful self-culture.

2. The dressing of the hair shows character. Let it be neat and becoming, whatever the style.

3. The clothes should be tidy and appropriate to time and place, with a touch of style which is never extreme.

4. The bearing should be erect, dignified but retiring, free from all boisterous actions. Never do anything to attract attention.

5. A mild tone of voice bespeaks culture. Loud talking, laughing, shouting, screaming or calling across streets are unladylike.

6. The choicest forms of language are none too good for the womanly girl.

7. Silently rebuke all unkind or unchaste conversation by withdrawing your presence.

8. The well-bred girl never makes a jest of the failings, misfortunes or mistakes of others.

9. Read a beautiful poem or look at a beautiful picture every day.

10. Wrong thoughts mar the face, while pure and loving thoughts give it beautiful lines.

11. An even disposition is an enviable virtue. Our kindliness of manner should triumph over our ill moods.

12. Reserve caresses for the privacy of the home. They are but the froth of affection and are in bad taste in public places.

13. Hold your standard high and seek the company of people who can help you raise it.

14. To treat all with courtesy and consideration is a mark of good breeding.

15. Do some kind act every day, you will pass this way but once. – Girls' Literary Club, 1914

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