1930’s Etiquette and the Sexes

Q. When a man is being introduced to a girl, is it proper for him to offer his hand? 
A. No; he should wait for the girl to offer her hand, if she cares to do so. That is her privilege.

Q. When a man and a girl meet often, but have never been introduced, is it all right for the girl to speak ?
A. Yes, if she is much interested and is courageous enough to run the risk of an undesirable acquaintance.

Q. When a man is being introduced to a girl, is it proper for him to offer his hand?
A. No; he should wait for the girl to offer her hand, if she cares to do so. That is her privilege.

Q. What should a girl do when a young man calls in the evening and doesn't seem to knew when to go?
A. Allowing long lapses in the conversation is sometimes an effective method. If this doesn't work, it seems that a suppressed yawn or two would be justified.  

Q. What does it indicate when a man. in conversation, is constantly talking: about himself, his adventures and experiences ? A. It is a sure indication of ill-breeding, and such a man can never become popular.

Q. Is it ever proper for the parents of a girl’s fiance to announce the engagement.
A. No; this is the privilege of the girls parents only.

Q. Is it sufficient for a bride and bridegroom to thank their friends verbally for wedding gifts.
A. No; a personal letter of thanks should be written by the bride for each gift.

Q. Is it necessary to write the prefix “Mr.” when “Jr.” is used after a man’s name?
A. Yes, both Mr. and Jr. must be used. – Roberta Lee’s “Modern Etiquette,” 1930’s

 

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