Etiquette of Wedding Attendants

The Edwardian Bride and Groom with attendants – “The duty of bridesmaid or maids depends on the character of the wedding. Principally it is to stand at the altar as a witness to the ceremonials and to take part in the bridal march or procession.” ~ Image source, Etiquipedia library.

The principal duty of the best man, in connection with the marriage ceremony is to see that the bridegroom does not enter the church without the ring or leave it without his hat. In addition he has to accompany the bridegroom to church and to pay the clergyman his fee. If there are any speeches at the repast after the wedding, it is his duty to propose the health of the bridesmaids. 

The duty of a bridesmaid is to accompany the bride and attend to her in the church. If there is no maid of honor, she performs the duty of that personage - that is, she will raise the veil, if the bride wears one. The duty of bridesmaid or maids depends on the character of the wedding. Principally it is to stand at the altar as a witness to the ceremonials and to take part in the bridal march or procession. 

Books on etiquette, to be seen at the Free Public Library, give in detail what should be done at a wedding, church or home.– San Francisco Call, April 1902

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