Etiquette and Respect for Others

“We can't get rid of her. We've insulted her, ignored her, done just about everything but she still tags along. What can we do?” — Outrageous behavior on the parts of these three girls! Rudeness is inexcusable behavior to someone new you meet, regardless as to whether or not you wish to develop a friendship. “The Golden Rule,” honesty and showing some respect for others would be the best policy in a situation such as this one. Treat everyone as you would like to be treated.

DOROTHY DIX: We three girls have been friends for years. Recently a new girl came to our school and attached herself to our small group. We can't get rid of her. We've insulted her, ignored her, done just about everything but she still tags along. What can we do? —Dianne

DEAR DIANNE: It's much easier lo travel in a quartet than in a trio. Why be so selective? This girl is lonesome and frightened of her new school and different companions. She needs someone and has chosen ycur particular group as her idea of the best girls in school. Why not live up lo the honor? Be friends to this friendless youngster. Help her over the hurdle of getting accustomed to new surroundings. Encourage her lo overcome her shyness. Give her self-confidence. Some day you, too, may need a friend.— Dorothy Dix, 1958

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