Prom Etiquette for Young People

  

Make your date feel special, and do not leave her with her friends all night, she spent a lot of time getting ready. — And not mentioned in the article, but very polite, if another young man asks to ‘cut in’ and dance with your date, graciously allow him to at least once.

Proper Etiquette and a Successful Prom

Although there are many ways to approach the festivities of Prom, there are a few guidelines that will make it more enjoyable, smooth, and memorable. Etiquette coach Kim R. Wilson explains what to do and what not to do:

For Ladies

1. Manners matter: Always remember to say please and thank you. 

2. Eating is a skill: Use the proper silverware by starting with the outside and working your way in. Put your napkin on your lap to keep from spilling on your dress. Remove your gloves during dinner. 

3. Accessorize: Wear a wrap or a shawl around your shoulders over a strapless dress. Do not wear rings over your gloves. Do wear your bracelet over your gloves. 

4. You and your date: Make all entrances with your date, and especially do not walk in front or behind them. Do go to Prom with a date who will pull your chair out at dinner. Tell your date how handsome he looks. Be on time, he’s nervous enough as it is. 

5. Alternative: Do not be afraid to go with your girl friends to Prom. Think of it as “less stress.” 

For Gentlemen

1. Manners matter: Do not seat yourself when a lady is standing. Do stand when- a lady excuses herself from the table. Pull her chair out when being seated. 

2. You and your date: Do not enter a room before your date unless you are turning on the light for her. Check her wrap in for her at hotels and restaurants. Make all entrances with her. Do ask another woman to help pick out the corsage and be sure to match the color to the color of your date’s dress. Do not forget to tell her how beautiful she looks. 

3. Look and feel good: Do wear your best cologne, but do not completely drench yourself in it. Do not forget your cash. Do not drink and drive. Make your date feel special, and do not leave her with her friends all night, she spent a lot of time getting ready.— Woodside World, 2007

🍽️Etiquette Enthusiast, Maura J. Graber of The RSVP Institute of Etiquette, is the Site Editor of the Etiquipedia© Etiquette Encyclopedia