Thursday, August 19, 2021

Etiquette On Board a Steamer

Good-breeding forbids that one monopolize the steamer piano or do all the talking in the ladies’ cabin. Pay some regard to the comfort of those who retire earlier than yourself. Politeness which springs from a kind heart is opposed to boisterous laughter and loud talking.



Steamer Acquaintances

On a steamer where people are thrown together for days, many pleasant acquaintances spring into existence, and some warm friend ships which have stood the test of time have been formed.

But even here, where much freedom is allowed, it is conceded that a certain degree of reserve should be observed on the part of a lady, and that no familiarity should be permitted; also that an acquaintance formed on board a ship need not proceed further than the place which gave it countenance.

Good-breeding forbids that one monopolize the steamer piano or do all the talking in the ladies’ cabin.

Pay some regard to the comfort of those who retire earlier than yourself. Politeness which springs from a kind heart is opposed to boisterous laughter and loud talking.

Table Etiquette on Board Steamer

At the table do not eat hastily and greedily. It is not only ill mannered, but is not a healthy practice. Time is ample here, and you have not the excuse of a hastily-eaten meal at a railway station. Besides, the hundred or more pairs of eyes that are observing you will comment unfavorably.

Never allude to sea-sickness at the table. Most every one is squeamish on the water, and any allusion of this sort is in bad taste.

Remember here, as elsewhere, to avoid giving offense, and regard the rights of all.

Hold yourself ready to pass anything should occasion require. – Annie Randall White, 1901



Etiquette Enthusiast, Maura J. Graber, is the Site Editor for the Etiquipedia© Etiquette Encyclopedia

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