Thoughts on Introduction Etiquette

An introduction is more than good manners — it's an invitation to belong.

When did it become acceptable to stop introducing people? 

Have you ever been with someone who greeted everyone they knew, but never introduced you to any of them? Sadly, we have all been there.

A thoughtful introduction can turn an awkward moment into a welcoming one. It tells someone they belong, not that they're standing on the outside looking in. It shows respect for others when we make introductions.
No matter where you are in the world, respect often begins with a simple greeting. “Hello.” “Hola.” “Bonjour.” “Jambo”… Different words. Same message: "I see you."
Modern etiquette isn't always about table settings or dress codes. Sometimes it's simply saying “hello,” making the introduction, and making sure no one feels invisible.
An introduction isn't just good manners— it's an invitation to belong.

A Review of Introduction Etiquette 

• Always introduce men to a women.
• When introducing two men or two women, always introduce the younger to the older.
• Say “I would like to present… ” Or “I’d like you to meet...”
• Use proper titles whenever you know them, such as Miss, Mr., Mrs. or professional designations such as Doctor, Judge, or Captain.
• Shake hands with a man. With a woman, shake hands only if she first offers her hand first.
• Always stand up to be introduced, or to make introductions.
• Look directly at the person you are being introduced to. Be polite and friendly with your eye contact.
• Say “How do you do…” after being introduced.
• Speak names clearly. Repeat them if asked.
• If you are being introduced and didn’t understand the another person’s name, ask the person making the introduction to repeat the name.

Meet our newest contributor, Eileen Copeland. Eileen is the founder of Southern California Etiquette™, a modern etiquette and social refinement platform which explores dining culture, hosting, presentation, and contemporary social behavior. A native Southern Californian, Eileen’s background includes executive and personal assisting, real estate, wellness, modeling, beauty, and luxury client services. Married for over 15 years, Eileen is a mother of two and grandmother of two, whose broad experiences, including living internationally for nearly a decade, helped shape her appreciation for culture, hospitality, and refined living. She shares life with her husband, her mini Goldendoodle, Teddy, and Luna, her sphynx cat, while continuing her etiquette studies under mentor Maura Graber of The RSVP Institute of Etiquette.

 

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