Edwardian Era Etiquette and Slang

In the classic film, “My Fair Lady,” Audrey Hepburn’s “Elizabeth Dolittle” had to learn, among other things, to gain possession of her “H’s” and stop using slang. In one funny scene, her excitement got the best of her, and her slang colorfully flew out of her mouth. 

Shun Slang

Slang is a thing which can be indulged in only by those who are perfectly secure of their social status, though, on the other hand, an over fastidious pronunciation of words and a studious correctness of articulation are apt to suggest the idea that we have only lately come into possession of our “H’s” and our grammar and have, in consequence, to be guarded in our conversation.– Good Form, Riverside Enterprise, 1911

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Now Don't Get Snooty About Etiquette Editor

       

Agony Aunt Anne Singleton on etiquette and correcting one’s grammar. “Why be snooty?”

A LADY who writes to say my English is faulty in spots–whose isn't?– after having objected to the correspondence of another lady and myself on the subject of “if I were” as against “if I was,” further takes me to task for various modes of expression and finally ends by asking: “Why be snooty?”

Why indeed? But what does she consider snooty about my answering a letter to the best of my ability, using the language I was taught to speak? I don't call her snooty for disagreeing with me and trying to set me straight, from her point of view. She thinks I'm wrong. I think she's wrong. But I am not going to characterize her opinions as she does mine. 

I am going to quote Professor Loundsbury to her. Three fundamental principles he lays down. “The first is that usage is the authoritative standard of speech. The second is that it must be good usage. The third is that it must be present good usage.” I admit I'm no grammarian. I couldn't give the rules for employing one combination of words instead of another. But I do know present day usage among the best authors and I am well aware of it among the best speakers of English. 

While answering in the manner objected to (which is a form of expression I wager will be condemned) I imagined I was gossiping with a neighbor, not exchanging gestures of defiance with an enemy and I certainly was not conscious of being proud or vain-glorious. Be that as it may, how will my readers take it if I tell one (who writes to ask) that I pronounce “either” with the sound of “i” rather than “e” because I was so taught, because the better educated of my friends do so and because the Oxford dictionary commends it? Is that snooty?– By Anne Singleton for Vogue, 1931

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