Antique Silver as Wedding Gift

When afternoon tea became a regular social event, not only was tea served, but so was coffee, and in the winter, hot chocolate. In the summer, hosts and hostesses were expected to offer lemonade, as well as the tea and coffee, until iced tea made its appearance in the U.S. via the 1904 World’s Fair. This is a depiction of a French silver tea service. It is complete with a coffee pot, a tea pot and a hot chocolate pot in the center.  It is rare to find such complete sets nowadays in antique stores. Most of the pots have been separated from one another. It is still the custom in the United States to offer coffee, as well as tea, at afternoon tea events.

Q.-The daughter of a very dear friend of mine is to be married. I am alone and have quantities of lovely silver, much of which has interesting history back of it. I would like to give her a beautiful solid silver tea service, a wedding present sent me from abroad. Or do you think I should buy a modern piece for her? —Mrs. Myrna B.

A.-Your friend's daughter would indeed be fortunate to receive such a lovely gift. And if she has good taste and values the friendship between you and her mother, she will be thrilled beyond measure and treasure your present. The modern cannot be mentioned in the same breath with the beautiful old things, such as silver and linens.— From “The Log of Life” column in the San Pedro News Pilot, 1943

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