|Etiquette for whose name is first, last and signatures...|
A. Here the wife’s name is courteously used first; “Mary and Tom’’ (or "Mary and Tom Green”).
Q. If a Christmas card is engraved with the sender’s names, with “Mr. and Mrs.” should these be at the top or bottom of the card?
A. Always at the top. Otherwise, they might seem like a signature.
Q. When signing the card, whose name is written first the husband’s or wife’s?
A. It is courteous for the person signing the card to write the other name first. For example, if you sign the card for you and your husband, it should read: “Tom and Mary.'’ – The Desert Sun, 1966
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