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THE "BREAD-AND-BUTTER" LETTER
From constant usage, the term "bread-and-butter" letter has become custom. Now, upon return from a week-end or house party, it is considered necessary and, indeed, it would be a gross neglect to fail in so obvious a duty, to write a cordial note to the hostess, expressing appreciation of the “hospitality received, and informing her of your safe arrival.
The letter may be as long and chatty as one pleases, or it may be only a brief note such as the following:
Terrace Revain,June 23, 19—
Dear Mrs. Bevans:
This is to tell you again how very much I enjoyed the week-end at Pine Rock. We got into the city at five and Morgan brought me out home in a taxi. Mother is giving a small bridge this afternoon and so I found everyone busy, for while there is not a great deal to do it is impossible to get anyone to help do it.
Tell Mr. Bevans that I am arranging for three or four tennis games next week, so that when I come again, if I don't win, I shall at least not be beaten quite so shamefully.
Let me know when you come to town on your next shopping trip. Perhaps we can arrange for lunch together somewhere.
Very sincerely yours,
Helen R. Janis.
From Lillian Eichler's 1924, “Book of Etiquette / Volume I”
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